Nigerian feminist, Nkechi Bianze, has advised married women to put their own families and parents first over their in-laws. The mother of two gave the advice on Friday after a man advised men to take care of their parents and siblings more than their in-laws. As a married woman, focus on your family more than you focus on your in-laws, she wrote. If your father in-law or mother in-law is sick, let their children look after them. Focus on looking after your own parents. Also, you need to stop doing unpaid housegirl duties for your in-laws. You do NOT owe your in-laws any care obligations. What you owe them is to take care of their son. Men ALWAYS put their families first before their in-laws. Women should learn to UNAPOLOGETICALLY put their families first over their in-laws.
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If your father in-law or mother in-law is sick, let their children look after them. Focus on your own parents – Nigerian woman advises married women appeared first on
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